What is the right way to look at death?
Avoid thinking entirely about it, and it will take you by surprise one day; and in a really bad way.
Think about it all the time, and all of life starts to revolve around it. You stop living, in a manner of speaking.
The last 8-months have been almost entirely the latter for me. Everything is measured through its prism. It is not a good way to live.
Logically, I know how this works. All these thoughts does not prevent it when the time comes. No amount of preparation helps you cope with losing anyone that is close.
But, right now, it is not something that I am able to internalize.